Is He's Cheating On You?

Riki Ramdani

Do you feel like the love of your life could be cheating on you? Do things seem to be dwindling between the two of you when you used to have a fantastic spark? If you feel like things are going wrong, and that your man might be cheating on you, this article might help you figure out if he really is.

Please remember that without proof or your man coming forward about things, there is no definite way to tell if he is indeed cheating, but we hope that the following signs that cheaters usually exhibit will help you conclude whether or not you should pursue further in your relationship.

His time with you has changed.

At the beginning of your relationship, it seemed like he had all the time in the world for you. You would spend nights together, go to movies, out to eat, even for silly adventures and day trips. All of or most of your time you would spend together, but it seems like now he has no time what so ever for you. He always blows you off with excuses that he is working late, or that he wants to hang out with the boys.

He accuses you of cheating.

You at one time had a tremendous and trusting relationship with him, but now he has started to accuse you out of nowhere that you may be cheating, and you have given him no reasons not to trust you. Guilty people often accuse others of things they have done.

Changes in habits or appearance.

Your man out of nowhere started shaving his beard differently than the norm. He started grooming and caring for his appearance more than he usually would.  He has found new hobbies such as bowling, or other things, and he wants to do them without you.

You argue more often.

You spend more time arguing over little things than anything else anymore. Either it is you asking him where he has been, and him getting defensive, or him accusing you of things and it always turns into a fight. It's always another argument every day.

He is broke all of a sudden.

He always used to have enough money to take you to dinner or on a movie date, but now he doesn't. He still works the same job, but now he seems to never have money to do anything anymore. On top of never wanting to spend time with you, this would be a big hint of cheating.

He is distant in every way.

In the bedroom, in everyday life, when you open up to him, he seems so distant. A man who was ones there for you seems so distracted, but by what? When you talk to him, he is shorter than ever; he just seems uninterested in you.

We hope that these signs can help you get to the bottom of if your man is cheating on you or not. If he exhibits any or all of these signs, he might be a cheater. Once again, without proof or your man coming clean about his dirty deeds, there's no real definitive way to know for sure; but if your man has these signs listed above, you need to consider even if he isn't cheating if this is a relationship you want to continue.

We wish you well on your choices in your relationship and all the love, light and happiness in the world!