Every relationship has to be a two-way street. You cannot have one person with all the love and feelings while the other doesn’t care or is afraid of commitment. Both parties have to love and care for each other equally, or the relationship won't work out.
Sometimes we are made to believe that someone cares about us and will make all our dreams come true. In reality, they just don’t care enough about us, and we have already fallen in love with them.
They fool you into thinking that they care about you, but they themselves don’t even know what they are feeling. They use lines like what we have is special, and they only want to be with you.
They still can’t commit to you. Every time you bring up some form of commitment topic they find all kinds of excuses or ways around the topic. They are so good at making up those excuses that you sometimes even believe what they say and back off.
We can’t control who we fall in love with. You only live once, and you have to go out trying, or else you will regret it. It is normal to be scared and for people to take time to come to terms with big decisions like spending your life with someone, but sometimes guys just want to have fun and have no real feelings. This is where you have to try and figure out if he is genuine or not.
It’s pretty simple, if someone cares enough about you they will show it. No mixed feeling or you having to figure out where you stand. You don’t need someone who showers you with gifts and is too busy to spend time with you or actually care. Don’t get me wrong every girl loves to get gifts, but that’s not the only thing we want out of a relationship. We need them to spend time with us and show us that they really care. Trust and commitment is the key to a successful relationship and if you can’t be open about how you feel there’s no point caring on.
Many people lose themselves once they enter a relationship and forget that they are actually important too. Remember to put yourself first and focus on what is important for you. Don’t be afraid to let go. It’s not the end of the world if things don’t work out.
Some things are just not meant to be. You might be so focused on Mr. Wrong that you don’t even realize Mr. Right is just around the corner waiting for you. The longer you remain in a relationship, the more difficult it is to end it and move on.
You deserve the best, and if you are with someone that doesn’t make you feel the best, you need to move on! Everyone deserves to love and be loved. There is someone out there that was created just for you. Don’t settle and fall for the player when your prince is waiting for you.