If you ask yourself am I a Narcissist, it’s pretty safe to say you’re not, quite simply because a narcissist wouldn’t truly ask that question of themselves as they think there is nothing wrong with them and their behavior.
True narcissists generally have no idea what narcissism is, they don’t care about their behavior, in fact they would think there is nothing wrong with it.
If you find yourself worrying if you could be a narcissist it could be that you are spending time around one or more and start to question your own behavior.
You can ask yourself these questions and answer them honestly to find which ones are true about yourself:
If you answered yes to less than six, you do not have a narcissistic personality disorder.
If you answered yes to more than seven, you may have unhealthy narcissism.
You can seek out a qualified therapist for consultation, doing that alone will tell you that any narcissistic tendencies are minor, as narcissists tend to not seek help as they truly believe there is nothing wrong with them, so therefore do not require help.
Psych central have an online test you can take for free and it has been commended by the medical profession as accurate. You can find it here.
You can also use these questions and test to discover if you are too closely involved with someone who is a narcissist.
A strong woman wants a partner who understands that she’ll never ask him for assistance. She needs a lover who is willing to offer his help even without waiting for her approval. Although it might be unfamiliar to him, he needs to understand that she has been reliant on herself all most all her adult life.
But once he breaks through into her heart, life with her will be happy and simple. He’ll make her a better person, and be the man she has been waiting for.
She wants a man who understands that she can stand on her own even when he’s with her. But this doesn’t make you less valuable to her. She still wants you in her life.