There is a girl you will rarely meet – a nice girl who is also incredibly tough. She might have a gentle and kind heart, but she is also very tough and knows how to protect her soft heart.
This girl is as real as anyone can get, and it’s because she can face vulnerability head-on with little regard for what anyone else thinks. She knows she is nice and some people will try to take advantage of that, but she will not let people walk all over her.
With this girl, you will feel like bearing all your soul. She draws you in with her kindness and respect, and you will trust her as soon as you meet her. You can tell, even without having to find out to much about her, that this is an honest soul that can handle the truth. Fortunately, trusting her is not something you will ever regret.
Her toughness is not mingled with deceit. Although she knows she is nice, she doesn’t think herself better than everyone else.
She is fair with all people unless you try to exploit her good intentions in which case she will not let you get away with it.
This girl is actually proud of how nice she is, which is why she will shut anyone out of her life when they seem to disrespect this unique trait of hers. After all, saying no is not an issue for her. She might have a kind heart, but she also knows how to express her mind.
When she is wrong, she will say she is sorry. And it’s because she understands niceness does not equal perfection. So, she apologizes when she is wrong. Deep down, she knows that her intentions are pure and that she is not out to hurt anyone on purpose.
For this girl, expressing deep emotions is not an issue. And yes, she has been hurt again and again, which is why she likes to put everything on the table to avoid any misunderstandings in the future that would lead to bruised feelings.
She wants everything to be clear and in the open from the very get-go.
This is a girl who knows very clearly what she wants. She is also very driven, and she has no time for nonsense and mind games of any kind. When you meet her, you will know that she is the kind of person you want in your life, as she will be honest, sweet, and very loyal.
This is the rare kind of girl who would take a bullet for you once you find a place in her heart.
So, if you meet this kind of girl, do all you can to make sure you don’t mess things up. Hold on to her with everything you’ve got. It will be a rare fortune for you to find someone who can offer you unconditional reliability.
Understand that an incredibly tough girl with a nice heart is the best friend you can have and the most trustworthy lover you can have in your life. This is the kind of girl you should try to hold on to forever.