Love isn’t easy for anyone. It's going to serve as a big challenge, especially when you’re trying to make it work. But it’s more difficult for people who overthink and overlove. Sometimes it will become nearly impossible to find a satisfying relationship for these people.
When you’re someone who overthinks, relationships for you will be outright unbearable. You’re going to face never-ending moments of self-doubt and confusion. You’ll even get anxious over everything happening around you.
You can’t make an important decision without getting obsessed about it for a while. You don't call or text someone without a good reason. And before sending a text message, you re-read, memorize, and recheck it because you’re never sure.
Also, when you try letting go of the things that bother you, it won't be easy. You find it almost impossible to detach from the confusion and noisy thoughts in your head. But you undergo these struggles because you’re an overthinker.
When your friends are off on adventures, enjoying life, being free and taking everyday as it comes you’re just there. Holding on strong. You don’t let yourself get dragged by the crowd or carried away by things you aren’t sure of. Or things which aren’t necessary, you over think yourself out of things.
Even though you overthink much and you see it as an over-obsessive behavior that gives you stress, it’s not entirely true. People who have accepted their overthinking and overanalyzing mind knows that overthinking means you care.
You have a kind and generous heart with much love to offer. Thus, when you love that special someone, you’ll give everything to that person.
You don’t love half-assed. You love with your whole heart and without holding back.
You don’t love on a part time basis. You don’t invest half of yourself but give it your all.
You love from the depths of your heart. You love without regret, doubts, or fear. You love everyone around you, and you’ll do anything to see them happy.
That’s why you overthink because you want everything to be and remain perfect. Because you care and want your special someone to understand how much you love. An above all, you overthink because you take relationships seriously.
It’s a fact that sometimes your fears and insecurities play a significant role in your overthinking. You can’t avoid fearful thoughts and feelings that perhaps you’re wasting someone else’s time. Or you aren’t good enough. Or you don’t try hard enough to offer them what they need.
And when such thoughts cloud your mind, your emotions will start haunting you. Sometimes you’ll even feel worthless.
You have a big heart which is capable of loving any person on earth. And you genuinely care for the one who means much to you. You can even do anything to make them know you’re always there for them.
Thus, when you love someone that much and hard, you can’t avoid, self-doubt and curious thoughts. That’s why you overthink.