Stop letting him message you when he's drunk.
Stop letting him message you when he's high.
Stop letting him message you when he's lonely.
Stop letting him open your slowly healing wound.
Stop letting him back in.
Yes, I know you want to be there for him, as he's in pain too, but think on this, you've talked/messaged for hours and think maybe, just maybe this is his way of saying I do want to try and work this out, but I don't know how. You talk of old times, play familiar games of 'what's my favorite'?
You're worried about him, is he taking care of himself? Is he eating right?
We're not talking just a one-off message/talk session; we're talking this has been happening for days or on and off for a while.
Then something happens that's important to you, NOT him, you!
You message him to tell him as he is your first thought of who you want to tell, and he makes it clear he really doesn't give a shit.
Sit up, take notice, and STOP!
STOP thinking about him and make yourself the priority.
Know your worth, which in case you’re unsure, is f*cking priceless!
She wants a man who reminds her that there’s no need to burden herself with everyone’s problems. That it’s healthy and okay to relax and let things be. And it’s good to enjoy life and her achievements without worrying about the things she can’t control.
She needs a strong-hearted man who reassures her that there’s no need to be hard on herself. She doesn’t need to strive for perfection all the time. She is good enough.
A strong woman wants a partner who understands that she’ll never ask him for assistance. She needs a lover who is willing to offer his help even without waiting for her approval. Although it might be unfamiliar to him, he needs to understand that she has been reliant on herself all most all her adult life.
But once he breaks through into her heart, life with her will be happy and simple. He’ll make her a better person, and be the man she has been waiting for.
She wants a man who understands that she can stand on her own even when he’s with her. But this doesn’t make you less valuable to her. She still wants you in her life.