While we all want to meet the right person as quickly as possible, the truth is that there is really no set time when that person will enter our lives. For some people, it happens when they are still young and but for others, it happens later in life. It’s all about divine timing.
When it is the right time, you will be ready for your soulmate. So if you have been trying hard to make things work out for you, it’s probably time to sit back and let things flow. When everything unfolds and evolves organically, you will start attracting the right person into your life.
Of course, there are some things that we do that have a direct bearing on divine timing, either directly or indirectly. For instance, holding onto a wrong relationship even when every sign suggests that it’s time o let go will only delay things for you. So if you are in such a situation, it’s high time you stopped trying to turn the wrong person into the right person.
Any choice you make can have long-term effects on your prospects of finding the right person. However, that is not to say that you have to obsess about divine timing. All you need to do is have faith that at the right time, something will work out for you. Just focus on yourself and your spiritual journey and let the universe deal with the rest.
If you have made some poor choices in the past, you might want to start making peace with yourself. Forgive yourself for every single mistake and also forgive people who may have wronged you in one way or another. Freeing yourself of all grudges and resentment keeps your soul pure. It also prepares you for that moment when the right person comes into your life.
When you have been waiting for the right person to enter your life for a long time, you can very easily get discouraged, especially when you feel like nothing seems to be going your way. If you are in such a situation, it is time to start trusting that something is being prepared for you behind the scenes.
Walk with your head held high and with a smile on your face. Some doors will open for you while others will shut. That is divine timing at its best. Walk through every door that opens and avoid trying to open any door that shuts. Before you know it, you will be meeting that right person that you have been waiting for.
Now that you know that the right person will enter your life in divine timing, it is time to start living life to the fullest without worrying about when the person will come. Start doing things that enhance your personal growth. Whatever you do, make sure that you are motivated by the right reasons. It’s all about trying to become the best version of yourself. This will help you in the long term even if it takes a long time for the right person to appear.
But it’s very important not to put the focus on the fact that the teenager is upset. Instead, let them feel or know that they have a right to be upset, as that is the only way to get to a point where a solution to the problem would be welcome or even useful.
Overreacting will only make the crisis worse. So, when your teenage child is having a breakdown, it is not time to issue threats or ultimatums. Trying to offer solutions, however well-intended, will not help either.
Your child is not broken, he/she is slowly recreating who they are so that they can finally mature.
So, when you see a teen in a crisis, the first thing you should do is calm them down. Everything else comes later.