What would you do if you met the jerk who bullied you around as a kid? My guess is you'd avoid them or try get back at them if you can. Well, this isn't what celeb Hailey Baldwin did when she came face to face with her childhood bully. You'll never believe who it is. Miley Cyrus! Yep, the famous 'Hannah Montannah' star was cruel back in the day.
According to Miley, she was helping Hailey to adapt to the challenges that she would face as a celeb later in life. I wonder how that is. The worst part is, she bullied Hailey with Hailey's older sister. I don't know about anyone else, but if my sister bullied me with her friends, I'd be as mad as hell at her. Sisters are supposed to guide you, be there for you and protect you. Not humiliate you in your lowest moments.
Let's rewind for just a bit: Maybe Miley was sincere that she was helping out the young Hailey, but her approach was wrong. No one should ever do that no matter the reason. Even though Hailey laughed at the childhood memory, I'm sure that somewhere deep inside her she wants to get even with Miley. I could never imagine being pals with my childhood bully. I love Hailey's forgiving spirit and would urge us all not to bully anyone.
It's uncool in so many levels. Would you be happy if someone did it to you? I doubt it. Let's show kindness to those weaker than us. If you're a victim of bullying, please don't hold a grudge against them. They hurt you, but that doesn't have to change who you are. Like Ms. Baldwin, forgive and move on. If you can, get together with them and move on with your lives. It's easier said than done but trust me, it's so much better than staying angry at them.
But what can you do as a parent to get things back on track?
A perfect solution is to let the teenager calm down first so that the emotional distress goes down. From there, the teenager can start thinking rationally again, and you can work your way out of the crisis through a discussion after that.
Understand that there is nothing you can do to control the emotions that teenagers go through, and neither can they. You just have to let them run their course, and eventually, they'll settle on their own.
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But it’s very important not to put the focus on the fact that the teenager is upset. Instead, let them feel or know that they have a right to be upset, as that is the only way to get to a point where a solution to the problem would be welcome or even useful.
Overreacting will only make the crisis worse. So, when your teenage child is having a breakdown, it is not time to issue threats or ultimatums. Trying to offer solutions, however well-intended, will not help either.
Your child is not broken, he/she is slowly recreating who they are so that they can finally mature.
So, when you see a teen in a crisis, the first thing you should do is calm them down. Everything else comes later.