Just An Ordinary Girl

There lives just an ordinary girl

A girl with deep emotions

A girl with purest feelings

A girl just as ordinary as all

There lives a girl

with brightest smile

A smile enough to heal the wounds of all

A girl as fair as beautiful day

Giving life to all

as if dead will also rise

There lives a girl

Whose eyes sparkles

more brighter than the stars

sparkling enough to lighten up my world

There lives a girl

For whom I am waiting

In solitude

There lives a girl

In the land of my dreams

#COAMMPLAYLIST - Hallelujah - Jeff Buckley

Itʼs taken me a good 3 years to be able to sit down and start writing from the end of my book. Tonight I sit here thinking about how I left the book and knowing that it was never finished, the hardest part about writing this was the fear that the friends and followers I had made along the way would judge me for the mistakes that I had made or pity me for the situations I had found myself in. I guess thatʼs a big part of the reason I never released who I was to the world. It didnʼt matter how much money I had been offered to release my name or the identity of Hugh, all that mattered to me was writing my truth and laying bare the pieces of my soul I will NEVER get back. I never thought what I had to say was good enough, that my life and the words that I wrote were worth more than the broken pieces that I would have to carry for the rest of my life. I still cry to this day knowing that how the fairytale progressed is not what I wanted nor did I expect it to set my love life up for the disaster that it became so easily.

3. Make Sure They Look Good

As you send the nudes, make sure that they look good. So, be sure to check the lighting and other factors as well. In short, take nudes you would be proud of.

4. Know Your Boundaries

Nude does not always mean being completely naked. So, you get to define what nude means to you. You might even consider a photo of yourself in a bikini a nude. As a matter of fact, photos that are less revealing tend to be more seductive. But if you want to go all out and send photos of yourself in your birthday suit, then you can go ahead and do it if it's comfortable for you.

And no, this does not mean your partner has to agree with everything you say. What we are talking about is the courage to express yourself regardless of what your opinions are.

You can never agree on everything.

The important thing is communication. And it should go both ways. But simple as this relationship requirement is, many couples are torn apart by poor communication.

Understandably, not everyone is an expert at communication, especially when it comes to their feelings. But there is a trick to overcome this. Try not to hold anything on the inside.

Say everything, even things that make you sad or angry. Your partner will not be able to figure out what you are feeling if you don’t express it openly.

4. You’re the caregiver type

In other words, you like to save people from problems. People come to you when they need someone to rescue them and you help them out every time.

5. You respect your word

While this is a great virtue, it makes it hard for you to change your mind, even when you should. To avoid feeling like you are a liar, you put yourself through situations you don’t like.

You, or anyone else for that matter, deserve to be in a relationship that is secure and free from manipulation based on your insecurities.

Love is described as having matured when the partners are calm, confident and unafraid. When you are certain of your partner’s love and respect for you, and you have the same to offer, then nothing should worry you.

So, if you come across such a relationship, hold on tightly. Many people let go and regretted it all their lives. Don’t be among them.