Is He Attracted To Me Or Just Being Nice? 12 Ways To Tell If He’s Interested

You might think he is interested, but he is just being nice. Guys can sometimes send mixed signals, and you might find yourself unsure what his true position is. To help clear the air, here are some signs that he is simply being nice, and that it’s not an attraction you are sending.

Signs that he is NOT just being nice.

1. He watches his appearance around you.

If he seems to go out of his way to make his appearance noticeable to you, then he might be doing it all for you. So, be on the lookout for a new haircut or something else he did not have before.

2. He listens to everything you have to say.

When a guy is into you, he will hang on to every word you say. That means he cannot get enough of you and he cannot get sick of talking to you about a broad range of topics.

3. His eyes say he is.

When the guy gets dilated pupils when you are close to him, that is a sign that he is interested in you and is not simply being nice to you.

4. He is very protective of you.

When a guy is into you, he will not want any harm to come to you, however minor or imaginary it might seem to you. It could even be someone talking something bad about you.

5. He is interested in knowing as much about you as possible.

If the guy is interested in everything there is about you, then its probably because he is interested in you and is not just being nice.

6. He makes eye contact.

If the guy is regularly staring at you and you keep catching him at it, this is a clear sign that he is interested in you and is not just being nice.

7. His body language says he is not just a friend.

A guy who is interested in you cannot keep himself from revealing his interest in you through body language. For instance, there will be “accidental” touches, attempts to keep you smiling and clumsiness at being distracted by your presence. Otherwise, he is just being polite.

8. He is very keen to spend time with you.

When a guy is just being polite, he won't be too interested in spending time with you; and when he does, he might not be as comfortable.

9. He is very interested in your life.

When a guy is interested in you, he will notice a lot of things about you; and not a thing about you will seem to go unnoticed.

10. He gives you special treatment.

If you are special to a guy, he won't treat you as he does other people. These guys want you to notice that you are special to them, and this is a pretty sure sign of attraction. If you don’t notice this kind of behavior, then it’s highly likely he is just being polite.

11. He wants you to see his friends.

If he is not interested in you meeting his friends, then it’s a sign that he does not see a long -term future for the both of you; which means you have a casual relationship that is unlikely to unfold into a romance.

12. He does not talk about other women in your company.

When a guy is interested in you, he will avoid talking about other women in your presence. If he does, it is a sign that he might not be interested in you, and if he is, he is just incredibly insensitive, neither of which is a desirable quality in a potential love interest.