Honestly, denying someone you love is not the easiest thing in the world once he/she has a place in your heart. But sometimes, you have to do it for your own good because regardless of how loving you are towards some people, they will never return the love.
It’s the high time you stop giving your energy to people who have no time for you. You should stop making time for people who do not appreciate the sacrifice you are making to be with them.
Don’t allow someone who treats you like an option to become a priority in your life. And more importantly, spare your love for those who are willing to love you back.
Chances are that you are a really good person, a kind soul that wants to be on everyone’s good side. But that is a futile struggle that will drain you of your energy, peace of mind, and an opportunity to live a more fulfilling life.
You need to understand that even though you are willing to put your heart and soul into having a complete and fulfilling life filled with happiness, only a few people will be on your side.
And no, that does not mean there is something wrong with you. So, you do not need to change your perspective. All you need to do is focus your love on those who are willing to give it back.
If you continually give love and get nothing back in return, you will soon run out of love to give. You can't keep pouring from your cup and getting nothing in return to fill yours with.
So, if you find yourself being forgotten, insulted, and easily done away with by those you are giving your time and affection, then you are not doing yourself any favors by holding on to such relationships.
Not everyone is right for you, and you are not right for everyone either. Therefore, when you find someone who is genuinely interested in you and will go the distance to make sure you are loved and cared for, give them your love because they deserve it. Mutual love and respect is a precious thing and we all deserve it.
Otherwise, when you waste your time forcing love out of people who can only take and never give, then you are wasting time you could be using to find that special connection that makes your life worth living. You would be surprised at the number of people in this world who would give you the love you desire; people you would willingly give all your love and affection in return.
Don’t let familiarity with someone make you feel like there is nothing better for you out there. There are a lot of people in the world who will not seek your company only when they need something from you.
Don’t let the possibility that you will be liked less hold you back, or that you will be forgotten about, abandoned, or neglected if you make the decision to seek better relationships. You cannot ruin a bad relationship; and any of these things happen, it means you were the only person holding the relationship in place.
Know the difference between love and attachment.
You might have all the time in the world to make mistakes, but you don’t have unlimited energy to spend on people who don’t deserve it. Once you understand this, you will be very careful about the people you spend your energy on.
From there, you will not want to spend a minute more on people, jobs, and experiences that use up your energy and offer you nothing in return.
Connect with people who ensure the best use of your effort. Don’t take it upon yourself to save people and use your energy to make their lives better when you know that you will get nothing in return.
Not everyone needs to like you, and your fate will unfold regardless of who enters or leaves your life.
Deep down you know that you are worthy of a great relationship, true loyalty, and true love.
So, if they don’t love you, let them go. Then find those who love you truly and deeply and your life will change in ways you never imagined.