In our lifetime we will be drawn to people for a reason. We connect with different people in very profound ways, and it doesn't always have to be romantic. Our best friends become part of our kindred spirit, also known as a "soul mate" sisters.
Real friends will see you as perfect, even when you are far from it. You could outright embarrass yourself, and your best friend will laugh with you, cry with you, then take you for ice cream. They love and respect you even if you fail.
Your kindred spirit besties are like an extension of your family. You can always count on them through thick and thin to be your soul sisters. Unlike a man, they will still be there for you with undying faith and dedication.
Their love for you knows no boundaries and no ulterior motives. They don't expect anything in return for being your friend. They will always make the time and space for you in their life, yet they realize they are not your number one priority. A best friend is still a phone call away, and even if weeks go by without speaking, you can pick right back up where you left off as if there was no time apart.
Your kindred spirit friends are the people you turn to in times of happiness, and in sorrow. Sometimes our best friends deserve the salary our therapist gets. They will sit and listen to us for hours and try their best to exhaust every emotion we have until we can't help but see the big picture. Sometimes there doesn't have to be a solution, its the fact that they are there which makes the problem seem to disappear.
Life will throw a ton of crap at you, but your kindred friends will always look back at the laughs and amazing friendship you have, and they will become the best times of your life. It makes everything seem like it will be okay after all. Friends are enormous contributors to who we are and what we hope to be in life. Some friends will teach you valuable lessons, and show you the importance of love and patience if you have a falling out. Real friends stick to you just like glue. They are a blessing in every way.
Not all people will qualify to be your friend, or in your circle of kindred sisters, but they choose you as much as you choose them. They become your crew in life's big project.
It's not your dream career or a boyfriend that's the missing piece of your puzzle called life; it's the friends you make along the way. Your partner also has to be your kindred spirit, but in a different capacity as your friends. In the end, if your partner does not possess some of the qualities found in your best friends, then maybe they are not the one for you. Your kindred spirit sisters will be there as you continue looking.
A strong woman wants a partner who understands that she’ll never ask him for assistance. She needs a lover who is willing to offer his help even without waiting for her approval. Although it might be unfamiliar to him, he needs to understand that she has been reliant on herself all most all her adult life.
But once he breaks through into her heart, life with her will be happy and simple. He’ll make her a better person, and be the man she has been waiting for.
She wants a man who understands that she can stand on her own even when he’s with her. But this doesn’t make you less valuable to her. She still wants you in her life.