Pleasing people is almost a habit some of us develop from a young age. Please our parents, please our lovers, please our friends and so on. Literally every decision made is influenced by our desire to be accepted by everyone and not be judged.
Well fuck it! I quit!
I am done trying to fit in.
From today I am just going to be who I am.
I’m going to stop being a ‘yes’ person.
No more yes to people and things that do not give me purpose.
No more allowing people to walk over my boundaries.
No more allowing myself to be put down by other people just so that they feel better about themselves.
No more making the effort to stay in touch with people who don’t take the time to contact me.
No more keeping quiet on things that matter to me, I will speak up, and I will be heard.
No more giving people the power to feed me with toxicity.
We should all do just that, don’t you think?
Let’s do what makes us happy.
Let’s say ‘NO’ more.
Let’s stop feeling guilty above removing people who are toxic to our lives.
Let’s become extraordinary people.
Let’s speak our truth regardless of who will listen to us.
Let’s be happy, fulfilled people.
If you are happy living your life the way you currently do, good for you.
I’m not and the only way to change that, is change my outlook and who I have in my life.
So, Fuck it! I’m done.
Say hello to the new me.
She wants a man who reminds her that there’s no need to burden herself with everyone’s problems. That it’s healthy and okay to relax and let things be. And it’s good to enjoy life and her achievements without worrying about the things she can’t control.
She needs a strong-hearted man who reassures her that there’s no need to be hard on herself. She doesn’t need to strive for perfection all the time. She is good enough.
A strong woman wants a partner who understands that she’ll never ask him for assistance. She needs a lover who is willing to offer his help even without waiting for her approval. Although it might be unfamiliar to him, he needs to understand that she has been reliant on herself all most all her adult life.
But once he breaks through into her heart, life with her will be happy and simple. He’ll make her a better person, and be the man she has been waiting for.
She wants a man who understands that she can stand on her own even when he’s with her. But this doesn’t make you less valuable to her. She still wants you in her life.