Dear Friend, I’ve Come To A Place Where I’m No Longer Happy, So I’m Leaving You

I simply wasn’t happy in the friendship anymore.

Friendships are hard work. You find yourself at times with certain friends going against what you yourself want to do just to keep them happy and to keep the peace.  

Friendships are just the same as any relationship, they come to an end if something isn’t right. Just know if it does, it’s okay, don’t beat yourself up over it.

Friendships, like any relationship should be a two-way street. You are not there to be your friend’s doormat. When the venting sessions that friends often have becomes more often all about them, with no time for you, it’s time to move on to pastures new.

You are not their puppet and let’s be honest we have enough with our men being assholes to us, without a friend being one too.

Talk with your friend about how you’re feeling, if they shrug it off you know that it’s a done deal, there is no friendship!

True friends make time for you, they listen to how shit things are for you and open the second bottle of wine and settle down to set the world to rights with you.

If your friend isn’t even prepared to have a girl’s night, that isn’t all about them, then why bother spending time with them.

Friends are a crucial part of our lives, we grow with them, go through our greatest achievements as well as our all-time lows with them. They’re the ones we can sit in a room with and say nothing yet remain close and comfortable with.

If your friend doesn’t see or hear your cry for help whether it is out loud or silent then they most certainly are not your friend.

We all get to the point where we are no longer happy associating with some friends, it’s part of our personal growth. Take time away from them first see if that helps, if not then break away for good.  You need to do what is right for you.

Some friends are just not meant to stay in our lives, sad but true. Do what is good for your soul, you have a long life to live, make sure it’s a happy one.

You Overthink Because You Overlove

You have a kind and generous heart with much love to offer. Thus, when you love that special someone, you’ll give everything to that person.

You don’t love half-assed. You love with your whole heart and without holding back.

You don’t love on a part time basis. You don’t invest half of yourself but give it your all.

You love from the depths of your heart. You love without regret, doubts, or fear. You love everyone around you, and you’ll do anything to see them happy.

That’s why you overthink because you want everything to be and remain perfect. Because you care and want your special someone to understand how much you love. An above all, you overthink because you take relationships seriously.

It’s a fact that sometimes your fears and insecurities play a significant role in your overthinking. You can’t avoid fearful thoughts and feelings that perhaps you’re wasting someone else’s time. Or you aren’t good enough. Or you don’t try hard enough to offer them what they need.

And when such thoughts cloud your mind, your emotions will start haunting you. Sometimes you’ll even feel worthless.

But You Overthink Because You Care Too Much

You have a big heart which is capable of loving any person on earth. And you genuinely care for the one who means much to you. You can even do anything to make them know you’re always there for them.

Thus, when you love someone that much and hard, you can’t avoid, self-doubt and curious thoughts. That’s why you overthink.