Date Someone Who Actually Pursues You

Chasing after a woman is an art form. While chasing a woman is not given much attention because we humans gravitate towards comfortable and predictable routines, pursuing is still important. Instead, what happens is that being with someone for a while turns into a habit. Everything becomes predictable – yes, ever little bit.

But we need to explore the importance of being pursued a little more. We are all deserving of it.

That is why you should date someone who pursues you and gets excited while thinking about you.

Stick to people who make an effort to plan out your times together. Even date night should not be taken lightly by this person. Be with a person who puts a little more effort and never misses out the small but important details that also matter in a relationship.

You deserve to be with someone who is very sure you are the one. Someone who is in for the long haul, regardless of the challenges that pop up along the way.

Be with someone who thinks they can do better as far as impressing you goes by always pursuing you, remembering the small things, and wanting the very best for you. Someone who will stop at nothing to ensure that you get what you deserve and nothing less.

Date someone who understands that time alone is important, but also knows how to make you feel special. In all seasons, this person should make you feel loved and contented with your life.

Be with someone who has no qualms about expressing their love for you. Someone who will tell their family about you and speak good things about you in front of their friends.

Date a person who loves you and wants to love you the way you would love to be loved. This is the person we are talking about when we say a person who will always pursue you without giving up.

Be with someone who understands what a great fortune it is to have you in their lives. Date someone who knows you have a special place in their lives. Be with someone who understands that you are irreplaceable, and is willing to love a little more, put in a little more effort, and care more than they did to keep you in their lives.

Date a person who always finds you interesting. Someone who will always find you to be fascinating. Someone who adores your company.

It does not matter where in the world you are at the moment, and it doesn't matter if you have a “type” as well. At the end of the day, you are worth pursuing and the person you date should bring this to the table. You should be their ultimate choice, not the first or the easiest option they had.

What you deserve the most is a love that makes you feel loved more than you ever have. You should be with someone who does not think they love you well enough already. The right person should never stop trying to love you more. That is the least you deserve, and it’s not crazy to expect this from the person you date.