Most men find it challenging to date strong and independent women. They often see them as intimidating which is not always true. A strong woman only seems intimidating to men who are weaker than them.
This is because men who only talk without actions can offer nothing to independent women. Even if you manage to win her heart, it won't last for long if his actions don't match his words.
She expects actions and substance. She needs a partner who is capable of giving her love, attention, and respect as much as she gives him. That’s why she’s looking for a man who is as strong as she is.
A strong woman doesn’t need pampering or being lavished with gifts. She only craves for a simple life and simple things which most men find it hard to offer. She needs trust, respect, and genuine feelings that match hers. But most times she doesn’t get these things. And that’s why she can seem intimidating.
A strong woman needs a passionate man who is not scared of committing to her, to create a healthy relationship. She desires equality in a relationship such that both partners don't have to struggle on their own. She wants a man she can invest in.
She believes that love and affection need to be nurtured and reciprocated. Otherwise, the relationship will fail. There’s no need to force things to work or being the only one on the giving side. She has done it before, and it never works.
She doesn’t want a relationship where she feels lonely. Or date a person who doesn't appreciate her efforts. She desires a lover who is lovable, affectionate, and who treats her better.
According to strong women, men who make an effort to keep a woman happy are the sexiest. She’ll be attracted to such a man, admire his initiatives, and appreciate his persistence.
Also, a strong woman wants a man who doesn’t back down when he faces obstacles in a relationship. She wants a man who’s willing to move out of his comfort zone to make her feel safe and loved.
She needs a consistent man and is willing to take things slow. A partner who understands that for good things to happen, they need time and perseverance. And once he’s patient, he’ll be able to bring down the barriers and boundaries she has created in her life.
She wants a man who reminds her that there’s no need to burden herself with everyone’s problems. That it’s healthy and okay to relax and let things be. And it’s good to enjoy life and her achievements without worrying about the things she can’t control.
She needs a strong-hearted man who reassures her that there’s no need to be hard on herself. She doesn’t need to strive for perfection all the time. She is good enough.
A strong woman wants a partner who understands that she’ll never ask him for assistance. She needs a lover who is willing to offer his help even without waiting for her approval. Although it might be unfamiliar to him, he needs to understand that she has been reliant on herself all most all her adult life.
But once he breaks through into her heart, life with her will be happy and simple. He’ll make her a better person, and be the man she has been waiting for.
She wants a man who understands that she can stand on her own even when he’s with her. But this doesn’t make you less valuable to her. She still wants you in her life.