We all lead busy lives, and dating at times can be hard to fit in. Well not so much the dating but the commitment and time part of it.
A trend is appearing that suits those of us who just don’t have the time for 24/7 relationships.
This type of relationship certainly works well for those who work ever changing shift patterns such as, firemen, doctors, nurses, police or those that travel a lot and are fully focused on their careers.
We all deserve to have love in our lives, but modern-day living, and its ever-changing tempo makes it harder than ever before.
Part time relationships seem to be on the increase, each partner knows the ground rules before so should you cancel at the last minute due to an unscheduled meeting cropping up, you won’t get the daggers and umpteen texts because your partner is pissed at you.
The trend is growing ever popular in developed countries where private lives are almost non-existent due to the demands and stresses of jobs.
For some this will seem a very odd type of relationship, others may think having your cake and eating it, by having a relationship with no real commitment. If it suits you both why not go ahead and do what makes you both happy.
You can find like minded people just by googling it, they list their interests, careers, work schedule situation, bit like a dating site but lays out the situation up front before contact is even made.
Everyone wants to find what makes them happy. Being with someone who understands exactly the lifestyle you have, the long hours, the late-night meetings and conferences, business trips etc make sense.
A website called parttimelove.co.uk currently covers those living in Australia, USA and UK. Their website states it.
“is for people who seek meaningful romance but for whatever reason don’t have time, or the circumstances aren’t right, to invest in a full-time, 24-7 relationship. We are not a no-strings website. We are for singles looking for regular partners with mutual attraction, genuine friendship, respect and a magical spark but whom have no expectations of moving in after three months and value their free time and independence.”
It’s up to us as individuals how we live our lives and being committed to our careers shouldn’t stop us finding love, even if that love is part time!
If it is something you think could work for you, give it a go what have you got to lose? Who knows maybe there is the perfect match for you out there, just waiting to hear from you.
She wants a man who reminds her that there’s no need to burden herself with everyone’s problems. That it’s healthy and okay to relax and let things be. And it’s good to enjoy life and her achievements without worrying about the things she can’t control.
She needs a strong-hearted man who reassures her that there’s no need to be hard on herself. She doesn’t need to strive for perfection all the time. She is good enough.
A strong woman wants a partner who understands that she’ll never ask him for assistance. She needs a lover who is willing to offer his help even without waiting for her approval. Although it might be unfamiliar to him, he needs to understand that she has been reliant on herself all most all her adult life.
But once he breaks through into her heart, life with her will be happy and simple. He’ll make her a better person, and be the man she has been waiting for.
She wants a man who understands that she can stand on her own even when he’s with her. But this doesn’t make you less valuable to her. She still wants you in her life.