We all lead busy lives, and dating at times can be hard to fit in. Well not so much the dating but the commitment and time part of it.
A trend is appearing that suits those of us who just don’t have the time for 24/7 relationships.
This type of relationship certainly works well for those who work ever changing shift patterns such as, firemen, doctors, nurses, police or those that travel a lot and are fully focused on their careers.
We all deserve to have love in our lives, but modern-day living, and its ever-changing tempo makes it harder than ever before.
Part time relationships seem to be on the increase, each partner knows the ground rules before so should you cancel at the last minute due to an unscheduled meeting cropping up, you won’t get the daggers and umpteen texts because your partner is pissed at you.
The trend is growing ever popular in developed countries where private lives are almost non-existent due to the demands and stresses of jobs.
For some this will seem a very odd type of relationship, others may think having your cake and eating it, by having a relationship with no real commitment. If it suits you both why not go ahead and do what makes you both happy.
You can find like minded people just by googling it, they list their interests, careers, work schedule situation, bit like a dating site but lays out the situation up front before contact is even made.
Everyone wants to find what makes them happy. Being with someone who understands exactly the lifestyle you have, the long hours, the late-night meetings and conferences, business trips etc make sense.
A website called parttimelove.co.uk currently covers those living in Australia, USA and UK. Their website states it.
“is for people who seek meaningful romance but for whatever reason don’t have time, or the circumstances aren’t right, to invest in a full-time, 24-7 relationship. We are not a no-strings website. We are for singles looking for regular partners with mutual attraction, genuine friendship, respect and a magical spark but whom have no expectations of moving in after three months and value their free time and independence.”
It’s up to us as individuals how we live our lives and being committed to our careers shouldn’t stop us finding love, even if that love is part time!
If it is something you think could work for you, give it a go what have you got to lose? Who knows maybe there is the perfect match for you out there, just waiting to hear from you.
In other words, you like to save people from problems. People come to you when they need someone to rescue them and you help them out every time.
While this is a great virtue, it makes it hard for you to change your mind, even when you should. To avoid feeling like you are a liar, you put yourself through situations you don’t like.
You, or anyone else for that matter, deserve to be in a relationship that is secure and free from manipulation based on your insecurities.
Love is described as having matured when the partners are calm, confident and unafraid. When you are certain of your partner’s love and respect for you, and you have the same to offer, then nothing should worry you.
So, if you come across such a relationship, hold on tightly. Many people let go and regretted it all their lives. Don’t be among them.