A lot of things about us could be making it harder for people to relate to us or remain close. It could be the energy around you, it could also be a peculiar personality trait that rubs people the wrong way.
Don’t shame people suffering damage from being in wrong relationships. You have no idea why she sticks around and cannot bring herself to pack and go even though that’s an option. These relationships are complex, and it’s hard for victims to separate themselves from them – at least understand that.
Independence and strength are two things that define us as women. But these virtues can be both a blessing an a curse. We are able to react the way we should, and not the way we would like. And more often than not, we completely neglect the need to heal emotionally once we are bruised.
I think I speak for many women when I say many of them have been through this before: you meet an interesting guy, and you actually want to see how far it will go. So, you go out on fun dates, and the chemistry feels right.
Who knew! The anxiety I am suffering through is someone else’s handiwork. I am not the problem as I previously thought. No. Instead, I am anxious all the time because of someone I gave my trust and love.